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November 25, 2011
What Kind of Books Are You Looking For?


My philosophy for this website has always been to review a variety of books for teens and tweens ages 10 to 18, choosing some books that would appeal to boys and others that would appeal to girls; I review books on a broad range of subjects and with different reading levels.

Now I'd like to hear what kind of books you're looking for and for what kind of reader. For example, do you have a twelve-year-old boy who's a reluctant reader and likes non-fiction? Do you have a sixteen-year-old daughter who's an avid reader but wants clean books? Are you a librarian who needs books for many different readers? I'd like to know!

(Added Dec. 2) I will respond to each comment here and on my Facebook page, so please check back a few days after leaving your comment.

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Susan V

Nov-26 5:04pm

I have a 9 year old daughter who loves books about dragons. She's in the 4th grade but she reads at about a 7th or 8th grade level. Are there any books out there that aren't too "adult" for her to read right now?

Sherree

Nov-26 6:19pm

I am a grandmother, and I have found that my granddaughters have complained that they want books that are not full of sex and cussing. They are looking for books that just fun and not so heavy.rnMy granddaughters are from 11 to 16. They will have to grow up fast enough and I think that their reading should be just about fun, enjoyable life experiences.

marthalynn

Nov-27 7:05pm

My 14yo step-daughter enjoys a lot of fantasy books. She likes characters that have supernatural powers or animals that possess special abilities. I would love to find some books for her that are moral and have good characters that entertain her imagination. It's hard to find clean books in the Fantasy genre.

Michelle

Nov-28 9:43pm

My girls want to read books like Twilight. They shy away from history or nonfiction. I need some good ideas.

justnatalie

Dec-1 7:38am

I'd love to just find something my teen hasn't read & that would keep her interested!

Debbie

Dec-1 10:07am

I have two girls, ages 11 and 15. One is dyslexic and a reluctant reader. I would like to see more books that would be of interest to a teenage girl, but have a 5th or 6th grade reading level.

Alison

Dec-2 10:28pm

(Responding to Susan V's question about books about dragons for a younger reader who's an advanced reader): I looked at all the books I've reviewed on my website, and there's only one that contains dragons - "Dark Lord of Derkhelm" by Diana Wynne Jones, but the dragons are not main characters, and I wouldn't recommend the book for someone as young as your daughter.I do have some suggestions for you, but note that I haven't read most of these books and certainly haven't reviewed them. (But you're welcome to request a review of any of these books.) The first book I'd suggest is "Dragon Rider" by Cornelia Funke, written for a younger audience than her Inkheart series. In "Dragon Rider," a boy and a dragon set off to find a fabled haven for dragons, and adventure ensues. A reader review of the book on Amazon says it starts slowly but gets more exciting as it goes along. My second suggestion is The Enchanted Forest Chronicles series by Patricia Wrede that begins with "Dealing with Dragons." Some years ago I read the first book in this trilogy about a tomboyish princess who's bored with castle life and leaves home to keep house for a dragon. Since I read it before I created this website, I hesitate to comment too specifically, but I know I wasn't offended by it at the time. My third suggestion is another trilogy, this one by Jessica Day George - The Dragon Slippers series. I haven't read any books in this series, but I've read two other books by George, and they were both clean; "Princess of the Midnight Ball" is reviewed on this site, so you can check out that review to get an idea of what George's writing is like. Hope these help!

Susan V

Dec-3 7:36am

Alison, thank you so much! That is very helpful! I looked up Wrede's series, and we have it in our local library. Thanks again for your help!

Alison

Dec-4 1:10am

Sherree, I've complied a baker's dozen of books that I've reviewed on my website that I would recommend to your granddaughters- you'll want to check the offensive language ratings on the books to see if they're acceptable to you. (The first seven books are for your younger granddaughter(s); the rest are books for older teens.) 1. The PENDERWICKS series by Jeanne Birdsall. (The first two books in the series are reviewed on my website; I've just read the third, and it's equally delightful.) 2. PROJECT MULBERRY by Linda Sue Park. 3. RAPUNZEL'S REVENGE by Shannon and Dean Hale. 4. The Sisters Grimm series by Michael Buckley, beginning with THE FAIRY TALE DETECTIVES. 5. WHEN YOU REACH ME by Rebecca Stead. 6. WINNING by C. S. Adler. 7. THE SEVEN WONDERS OF SASSAFRASS SPRINGS by Betty G. Birney 8. ENCHANTRESS FROM THE STARS by Sylvia Louise Engdahl. 9. ON POINTE by Lori Ann Grover. 10. PRINCESS OF THE MIDNIGHT BALL by Jessica Day George. 11. CHALICE by Robin McKinley. 12. DARK LORD OF DERKHOLM by Diana Wynne Jones. 13. IT'S A MALL WORLD AFTER ALL by Janette Rallison. Enjoy!rnrn

cheryl mulder

Dec-5 11:25pm

I like books about travel,they make me think

Antonio Herrera

Dec-6 1:02pm

My favorite books are all about fantasy stories, adventures and quests, Harry Potter books and some short fictional books such as star wars lol

Alison

Dec-7 12:56pm

Marthalynn, Here's a list of sci-fi/fantasy books I've reviewed on my site that your fourteen-year-old step-daughter might like: ALICE IN WONDERLAND by Lewis Carroll (talking animals); BOOK OF A THOUSAND DAYS by Shannon Hale (heroine can sing healing songs); AIRBORN series by Kenneth Oppel (main characters discover new species that lives its entire life in the air); ALCATRAZ VS THE EVIL LIBRARIANS by Brandon Sanderson (hero has Talent for breaking things - turns out it comes in handy!); LEVIATHAN by Scott Westerfeld (England in WWI times has learned to manipulate DNA to create modified life forms, including a flying whale). I read this last book but haven't reviewed it yet on my website: SUN AND MOON, ICE AND SNOW by Jessica Day George (heroine able to speak to animals). (I've reviewed another book by George, Princess of the Midnight Ball - you could look at those ratings to get a sense of whether this book would be appropriate for your step-daughter or not.) Hope this is helpful!rnrn

Beth R

Dec-8 11:28am

I have a twelve year old boy who is reading at the high school level but we are having some difficulty finding age appropriate books that challege him. Do you have any suggestions? Thank you

Alison

Dec-9 9:41pm

Michelle, I have a few suggestions for your daughters who want books like Twilight. Most of these are books I've reviewed on my website: CHALICE by Robin McKinley, KETURAH AND LORD DEATH by Martine Leavitt, VAMPIRE HIGH by Douglas Rees, BOOK OF A THOUSAND DAYS by Shannon Hale. I also suggest Hale's book GOOSE GIRL which I've read but haven't yet reviewed. One other book that's for mature teens might be good, but you will have to search the parent reviews to find it. Here's how: 1. Register for free as a parent, 2. hover over the Parent Section on the menu and 3. click on Search Parent Reviews. 4. Log in if needed. 5. Scroll down to the first search box and 6. click on Search Now. 7 Scroll down to the review that starts with a "U" - read the review and see what you think. (Please note that the next book in the series has lots of teen drinking in it, though it's subtly discouraged). I hope this gives you some new ideas!

Kimberly Hawley

Dec-10 8:36pm

My son LOVES dinosaurs, he's always bringing home books from the library on them. every week.

hstorm799

Dec-10 8:45pm

I have an 11 year old boy who reads at a 12th grade level and likes mostly fantasy. The problem with reading at such a high level is finding challenging books that he is interested in that are also age appropriate.

Dkota A

Dec-11 9:35pm

i have a 15 yr old girl who takes a while to read a book. She read The Lovely Bones in about 6 months and thats the quickest she's ever read a book, well with that many pages. she usually puts books down and forgets about them. are there any other books that you could suggest that would keep her interest?

Alison

Dec-12 7:22pm

Debbie, my sister works with dyslexic kids, and she's told me it's harder to find books for girls who are reluctant readers than for boys. Here's a list of books that I think might interest your daughters--the first five and No Children, No Pets would likely be most interesting to your eleven-year-old, but read the reviews and see what you think: SILVER DOLLAR GIRL by Katherine Ayres (reviewed on the same page as Macaroni Boy); RUNNING OUT OF TIME by Margaret Peterson Haddix; RAPUNZEL'S REVENGE and CALAMITY JACK by Shannon and Dean Hale (graphic novels); The Sisters Grimm series by Michael Buckley, beginning with THE FAIRY TALE DECTECTIVES. These next two books are not reviewed on my website, but I've read them both, and my sister and I both recommend them: WITCH OF BLACKBIRD POND by Elizabeth George Speare with a seventeen-year-old heroine, I believe. My sister says she's never had someone not like it. NO CHILDREN, NO PETS by Marion Holland, another one for younger readers--it's out of print, but there are a couple of used copies available on Amazon. Also, although I'm not crazy about the Twilight series (look up Stephanie Meyer in the Parent Section,and see my comment on the graphic version of TWILIGHT in the Discussion below--"What I'm reading/what you're reading"), the books have a compelling plot. I know this from working with reluctant teen readers. Another book that I've read but not yet reviewed that may be a good one for your daughters is THE TRUE CONFESSIONS OF CHARLOTTE DOYLE by Avi. I hope you'll check these out and find something that will interest your reluctant reader!

Alison

Dec-12 7:54pm

Natalie, I know it can be a challenge to keep up with a voracious reader! I used to read a book a day as a teenager. For this suggestion, you'll need to go to my Home page and register for free as a parent. Log in, then hover over the Parent Section tab on the menu, and click on Search Parent Reviews. Scroll down the page until you see a search box and click on Search Now without filling in any search terms. You will see a list of all the books I've reviewed on my site. When you click on the details button for a book, you'll see lots more information about the book and you can click on the links to the teen and parent reviews. Hope you find some books your daughter will enjoy--I'd love to hear about it if you find some books for her!

Alison

Dec-12 8:20pm

I realized I should include instructions for teens to see all the teen book reviews: Hover over the Teen Section tab on the Menu. Click on Search Teen Reviews. Scroll down to a search box and click on Search Now without entering any search terms. You'll see a list of all the recommended and also suggested books. Click on the details for a book, and you'll see lots of information about the book and can click on the link to the teen review.

Alison

Dec-12 9:22pm

This is a response to both Beth R and hstorm799 who have eleven- and twelve-year-old boys who read on a high school level. I'll make suggestions first to hstorm799 whose son likes mostly fantasy: Most of the fantasy books that I've reviewed on my website have a lower reading level than high school, but you can take a look and see if your son would be interested in any of them. The one I recommend most highly is WATERSHIP DOWN by Richard Adams, and I view the reading level for this book as inaccurately low; I consider it to be on a high school reading level. Other fantasy books with lower reading levels are the AIRBORN series by Kenneth Oppel; ALCATRAZ VS THE EVIL LIBRARIANS by Brandon Sanderson--the humor here is quite sophisticated even though the reading level isn't as high. Also look at HAVE SPACE SUIT WILL TRAVEL by Robert A. Heinlein. I also have reviewed a fantasy novel that I consider questionable, but read the review and see what you think--look up Kostick in the parent reviews. Another book I've read and liked but that would get a questionable recommendation on my website is ENDER'S GAME by Orson Scott Card. The book is filled with profanity on the h*ll and d*mn level, and there's a murder of a bully. The hero is an eleven-year-old boy, but the book is written on an adult reading level. The book has two different sets of sequels. The second set that starts with ENDER'S SHADOW is the one I'd recommend for young boys. I also suggest you look at books by Jules Verne and H.G. Wells, the classic sci-fi/fantasy writers. Beth R, I hope some of those fantasy titles are useful to you too. Often non-fiction has a higher reading level than fiction. Take a look at these reviews of non-fiction on my website: TO THE TOP: THE STORY OF EVEREST by Stephen Venables; SHIPWRECK AT THE BOTTOM OF THE WORLD by Jennifer Armstrong; THE WRIGHT BROTHERS: HOW THEY INVENTED THE AIRPLANE by Russell Freedman, and ANSEL ADAMS: AMERICA'S PHOTOGRAPHER by Beverly Gherman. All of these books are interesting, challenging reads. You may also want to try out books like Charles Dickens' GREAT EXPECTATIONS. A friend was telling us that when it was published (a chapter at a time), people in the US would go down to the docks to wait for the boat bringing the next installment, some even jumping into the water and swimming out to the ship to find out what happened to Pip. The book doesn't have the non-stop action we've come to expect from books today, but it's a compelling story, and the reading level is very high because of Dickens' complex sentence structures and extensive vocabulary. Congratulations to you both on your fine readers, and I hope these suggestions are useful to you!rnrn

hstorm799

Dec-12 9:47pm

Alison,rnThanks so much for the recommendations. My family are big Brandon Sanderson fans and I've read some Orson Scott-Card, but not this series. We'll have to take a trip to the library tomorrow. Just FYI, I've found that for Sci-fi, most of Andre Norton's books are okay for kids and have a strong fantasy element. I remember coming across these as a kid at a friend's house and falling in love with them.

Alison

Dec-12 10:09pm

Glad I was able to help, hstorm799! Thanks for Andre Norton recommendation.

Debbie

Dec-12 11:13pm

Thanks for your suggestions! I have most of them in my shopping cart on Amazon. I also added a couple more by Hale- A Book of a Thousand Days and Princess Academy. I was wondering what you thought of them as well. I also chose editions that were large print when available. I think they are easier for her to read for some reason. I ruled the Twilight series out partly due to the fact that she really struggles with italics and cursive.

April

Apr-27 12:23pm

I just got the request from my 14 years old girl who loves books written by Tamora Pieces and Ally Carter. She wants to fond books which have adventure, girl power, mystery, brain picking, but less romamce.rnPlease help. Thank you very much. It is wonderful that I have found your reviews and website.rnApril

Alison

Apr-27 9:52pm

April, I found some interesting books for your daughter who likes adventure, girl power, mystery, brain picking, but less romance. Here are the books I'd suggest - all of them reviewed on my site. "Enchantress from the Stars" by Sylvia Louise Engdahl, a sci-fi/fantasy classic; "Second Sight" by Gary Blackwood, an alternate history book with a main character who has psychic powers; "Running Out of Time" by Margaret Peterson Haddix, an exciting novel that's not quite about time-travel; "Leviathan" by Scott Westerfeld, a novel that presents World War I events in an alternate reality; "Cryptid Hunters" by Roland Smith, about twins who find out the dinosaurs might not be extinct after all; "Shiloh . . . and the Cave" by Jonna Turner, a mystery with a fiesty heroine; "Silver Dollar Girl" by Katherine Ayres, a historical fiction adventure. The last three books you'll want to look up in the parent reviews - they're questionable or for mature readers: "The Maze Runner" by James Dashner, a dystopian novel with a girl heroine who's telepathically linked with the hero; "Shadow Spinner" by Susan Fletcher, a retelling of the legend of Scheherazade and the Thousand and One Nights; "Uglies" by Scott Westerfeld, a dystopian novel where everyone becomes Pretty at sixteen. Hope this is helpful to you!rnrn

Alison

Apr-27 10:18pm

April, Let's make it a baker's dozen - I have three more books to recommend for your daughter, all historical fiction and all violent in different ways, so check the reviews: "I Am the Great Horse" by Katherine Roberts, narrated by Alexander the Great's war horse - the horse's groom is a girl. The next two are questionable/for mature teens, so look for them in the parent reviews: "Tiger, Tiger" by Lynne Reid Banks, about the daughter of Ceasar and her pet tiger; "Uprising" by Margaret Peterson Haddix, about three girls involved in the Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire in New York City in 1911.


July 9, 2011
What I'm reading/what you're reading

I’ve tried out some "heavier" discussion topics without getting much response, so I thought I’d try something lighter for a change. You might be interested in what books I’ve just been reading, what audio books I’m listening to right now, and what books I’m not going to review.

I’ve just finished reading the Civil War novel With Every Drop of Blood by James Lincoln Collier and Christopher Collier. The book follows fourteen-year-old Johnny, a Virginian whose father’s died from his war wounds, as he joins a supply train taking supplies to Rebel forces. He’s captured by a young runaway slave, Cush, who’s a member of the Union army. Since I will be reviewing the book, I’ll tell you more details later.

I’ve also just finished two other books: Lavinia’s Window by Michelle Weisen, a story of a twelve-year-old girl set in 1883. I usually don’t review books that aren’t published by major presses, but in this case, I met the author, and her press, Words of Mercy, focuses on providing uplifting, positive books! Click here to read the Teen Review and Parent Review.

The other book I just finished is Maisie Dobbs by Jacqueline Winspear. I saw a later book in the series when visiting my sister recently, but she suggested I start with the first book of the series. Maisie is an unusual private detective, but much of this first book focuses on her teen years and her rise from poverty to financial independence. I was hoping it might be a good book for older teens, but I think it’s too slow to be of interest to most teens, so I’m not going to review it.

I am listening to an audio book right now, a series I just recommended to one of my book groups for light summer reading: Over Hill and Dale by Gervase Phinn. The first book in the series, The Other Side of the Dale, describes Phinn's first year as a schools' inspector in North Yorkshire. (The Amazon blurb calls it "mostly true.")

Phinn is called the James Herriot of schools—remember All Creatures Great and Small? The book is charming and episodic, so you can pick it up and read a bit and then put it down. I’ve only been able to find abridged audio versions of the first two books read by Phinn, but they’re delightful because you get to hear the Yorkshire accents—and I can do my weaving while I listen.

There are a couple of other books I’ve recently read that I won’t be reviewing: Theodore Boone: Kid Lawyer by John Grisham and Twilight: The Graphic Novel, Volume I, art and adaptation by Young Kim.

I like some of John Grisham’s adult novels, so I was interested to see what his teen novel was like. Grisham can write such gripping fiction, but I found this book slow and the opposite of compelling, despite an intriguing premise. Thirteen-year-old Theo, the son of two lawyers, gives legal advice to his friends: what should a girl tell the judge about which parent she wants to live with? What should a family do about the foreclosure notice they’ve received?

Then Theo finds out there’s a witness to a murder, a witness no one else knows about, and the suspect is on trial and likely to get off. You’d think the book would really take off at this point, but it doesn’t. It creaks slowly along till just before the final pages and ends with a half-hearted cliffhanger that didn’t make me want to read more. It’s clean, but boring, so I won’t be reviewing it.

Although I’m very done with the Twilight series, I was intrigued to discover that there was a graphic novel of the first half of Twilight. Graphic novels can be a way to get reluctant readers interested in reading.

Unlike many graphic novels, this book is the size and shape of a typical hardback book. The art is all black and white, and from what I can tell just flipping through it, it faithfully follows the story. (Young Kim, the author and adapter, notes that Stephenie Meyer "supervised each and every page" of the adaptation.)

I was disappointed because much of the text is in italics—to show Bella’s thoughts. Italic script is hard for people with dyslexia to read. Someone who just dislikes reading may be motivated enough to read the book, but the script makes it so much harder than it needs to be!

Also, I have some concerns about this book: there’s an intense kiss that may bother some parents and teens. Also, in real life, if a boy tells a girl he’s bad for her, she should a) believe him and b) drop him like a hot potato. This book, like the original novels and the movies, is all about falling for the dangerous guy.

Now that you know what I’m reading, please tell us what clean books you’re reading!

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Ashley Montgomery

Nov-27 1:14pm

I'm very surprised at the comments about John Grisham. Like you, I have read and enjoyed several of his adult novels. Maybe he was not sure how to go about writing the book to keep it clean for teens. I think it would be hard to make the contrast.

sara

Nov-29 10:41pm

BEST juvenile book (maybe too young for teens; my kids are 11 and9) I have read in a long time is The Willoughby's by Lois Lowry. It is so funny, and an easy, entertaining read.

Alison

Dec-3 10:28pm

Ashley, I read an interview with Grisham about his book where he talks about some sixth-graders (I think) who critiqued his book for him. It made me think he'll do better with other books in the series, so I'm planning to give the next book in the series a try also.

Alison

Dec-3 10:42pm

Sara, thanks for suggesting "The Willoughbys" - I just read a review of it by Lemony Snicket, and it sounds delightful! Since I review books for tweens also, I've put it on my list!

SHerree Chmitlin

Dec-9 8:42pm

I was so hoping that the John Grisham books for teens would be more. My teenage daughter is getting to the point that she wants to read more. The teen books were wome that I was looking at. I suppose that I could get the first one and then let her decide.

justnatalie

Dec-10 12:42pm

that sounds like a god read! i'm still a big 'self help' type of reader - i lke all the metaphysics stuff :)

angela davis

Dec-12 1:12pm

I have a 11 year old daughter, shes sitting here and agrees, this is one pretty awesome book. She is new at the ebooks, but said she remembers reading a story similar to this one in class. :) She is excited to look in to more these.

Brooke Westmoreland

Dec-12 1:50pm

I just finished "Living With the Dead" by Kelley Armstrong. It is about different types of supernatural people, and it follows along with the same basis as her other books. I really enjoyed her series "Darkest Powers", and was disappointed when there were no more books!


May 25, 2009
What do you consider offensive language?

Before starting my website last year, I sent a survey to parents, asking about their concerns about books for teens—you may have received it. Many parents asked for specific information about the offensive language in the books I review—you wanted to know the specific words used, and you wanted to know the number of times they were used.

It sounded like a reasonable and straightforward request—a mite time-consuming, but I was game. Having wrestled with the issue for months now, I find it a topic fraught with difficulties.

I’ll tell you how I’m resolving them, and I’m hoping you’ll give me your thoughts on these issues.

First, although I make all the other ratings more vague for the teen reviews, I usually leave the offensive language exactly the same, so teens or tweens can look at the rating and see if they want to read a book with that kind of language in it. (For names of deity and actual swear words, I use asterisks, like this—G*d, d*mn, and so on.) Please let me know how you feel about your teens seeing the actual words.

Next, let’s talk about specific words used, starting with the "biggies" in terms of offensive language: the names of deity as expletives. In many cases, these are easy to identify. However, sometimes a character says, "Please, God, help me!" Not an expletive. Sometimes it’s hard to tell whether it’s an expletive or a prayer. I do my best, perhaps erring on the side of being generous to the author and characters.

But in this category, there are words I don’t consider offensive: if a character says, "Good Lord," I’m not offended. Even though many slang expressions are corruptions of names for deity, I don’t find them offensive; these are words such as "gosh," "jeez," "golly," etc. I don’t mark them or keep track of them. (I likewise don’t keep track of corruptions of other swear words—heck, darn, etc.)

I also don't find it offensive if the characters swear by other gods—if a character says, "by Jove," I don't flinch; I don't bat an eye; I don't mark it; I don't count it.

Because taking the Lord’s name in vain is so offensive to many people, even one use of it bumps the rating up at least to Mild. So any book with a rating of Very Mild for Offensive Language shouldn’t have any uses of names of deity as expletives.

Less offensive than names of deity are other words I consider actual swear words. I haven’t encountered the f-word yet in a book I recommend. It would certainly bump the book up at least to the category of Mature Teens Only. (These are books that I think are worthwhile but have some material that may be distressing to younger readers. For example, the book Uprising by Margaret Peterson Haddix describes the terrible fire in the Triangle Shirtwaist Factory in New York City in the early 1900s, and two of the main characters in the story die in the fire. It’s a great book, but not appropriate for younger readers. So on the teen calendar, it says, "For Mature Teens, see Parents’ Review." The only way to access the Teen Review is for a parent to go to their review first, then click on the link to the Teen Review.)

As for other swear words, I count variations of the same word together, so if there’s one "d*mn," two "d*mned"s, and one "d*mnation," they will all be counted as "d*mn" or "d*mned."

You might think that covers the matter, but there are also foreign swear words—if I recognize them, I mark them. And there are books (usually sci-fi or fantasy) with "invented" swearing, that is, the characters "swear" using words that aren't actual words or aren't swear words. Ordinarily, I wouldn't count them as swear words because they're not offensive to me. However, in the book I'm rating right now, the characters say, "Bloody vengence!" I ordinarily wouldn't mark or count this, but "bl**dy" is an offensive British swear word, so I guess I will count it.

In addition to names for diety and swear words, to me there are other offensive words as well. Where I grew up, we got in trouble for saying "shut up" to each other—and rightly so, to my mind. I deplore what I call the Bart Simpsonization of America—the snappy (and rude) comeback, the child who’s disrespectful to her parents, the constant put-downs.

So I started marking and then counting the times "shut up" was used as well as other language I considered offensive. At first, however, I over-counted, marking every use of the word "stupid," for example. But while I consider it offensive to call someone "stupid"—or think it—it’s not offensive to say, "I made a stupid decision" when it was stupid. So I’ve cut back. Hopefully, I’ll get to the point where I instantly distinguish a "stupid" that’s offensive from one that isn’t.

In the meantime, I’ll keep counting—even though this week I wondered if I was being utterly silly and foolish as I solemnly counted the number of times someone—animal, human, or djinn—was called "silly" or "foolish" in Rudyard Kipling’s Just So Stories!

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lovegood

Jun-3 8:49pm

ALL expletives of diety. ANY F-word. More than a few other swear words. ANYTHING sexually degrading.

Alphanumeric characters only

Jun-30 8:34pm

Thank you SO much for your detailed descriptions. It may seem "silly" to count all the Kiplingisms, but it is the detailed reports that make your service so incredibly valuable to me. I agree with all your thoughts as you have described your process of decision making. I like it just as you are currently doing it. Thank you!

Micah Pearson

Jul-31 1:43pm

I find it odd how language on tv or hearing people say it out loud doesn't get a second look/ bother a lot of people but if it is in print it becomes a huge issue.

Janet

Nov-26 1:39pm

We've taught our son that anything derogatory is "bad" words. "Stupid", "butt", and "shut up" are the biggest ones at our house!!

darlene

Nov-30 6:03pm

my daughter doent like dirty or curse words when shes reading,so we make sure to read the reviews first

Dawn

Dec-10 12:33am

I think you've done a great job on how you review and let us know the curse words. You can't please everyone no matter how you do it. Thank you for being so conscientious. :-)


December 18, 2008
How do you get a reluctant reader to read?

In my volunteer work, I have found that even reluctant readers will read when their goal is to help others. I use Heifer International's Read to Feed Program where the teens earn money by reading, and the money goes to provide animals to people in poor countries. The teens earn money based on how much time they spend reading, with a maximum amount set for each week, so slow and fast readers earn the same amount of money.

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Christine

Jan-5 9:26pm

I work with dyslexic students. I find that they have to learn to decode words quite well before they have enough concentration left to follow a plot. Once they can read well enough, it is essential to find books that move quickly and are exciting to keep their attention.

Sharon Larson

Oct-3 11:11pm

I love the idea of the Read to Feed Program. I've heard of other ways to support the Heifer Project, but this one will be a great way for my youngest son to be more motivated with his reading. Thanks!

Jude Skocki Kelly

Nov-26 8:10pm

My son refused to read. He just was never interested. So I started getting him subscriptions to magazines. Boys Life, Nat Geo Jr. then Nat Geo. He was reading all the articles and talking about them, on his own, at our dinner table. It worked like a charm :)

jenn

Nov-26 9:10pm

I try by example and we love to do audio books while traveling instead of dvds, sometimes if we dont finish an audio they will read the rest

Rebecca Hawkes

Nov-28 5:59pm

Great idea! Read to Feed is a great program!rnStopping by from VoiceBoks. :-)rnhttp://rebecca-hawkes.blogspot.com/

Melissa Doyle

Dec-2 12:31pm

When my daughter wanted to see a popular movie I told her she could go see it IF she read the book first. Worked like a charm! Later I got her an Amazon Kindle which made her feel more "cool" reading. Now she has no problem admitting that she loves to read. :)

Grace

Dec-3 7:10pm

You have to tap into their interests. Children are much more apt to read if they are interested in the topic.

justnatalie

Dec-5 6:29am

I find that encouraging my tweens to read WHATEVER interests them helpful! Then we elaborate on that, find more of what they like, maybe a few pages longer, etc.

kellie lineberry

Dec-5 9:26am

I love that idea.

cheryl noble

Dec-7 5:33pm

God Bless you for all your hard work. Volunteer with the teens these day is hard. I just wonder if anyone of them will follow in your foot prints. I appericate that you give to the poor.

Beth R

Dec-11 4:33pm

I think people need to realize that offensive comments aren't just comments that use profanity. Some of books have to many sexual ineundos for teens in my opinion.

Pamela Neese

Dec-12 4:12pm

I think the incentive program for reluctant reader's is a great idea.I also like that it is helping other's as well by providing something for other's through the reader's efforts.It should give the reader a sense of pride and accomplishment knowing they are doing good for other's!What a great idea to encourage reading and promote the idea of helping other's.It achieve's 2 goals,plus offer's the reader a sense of accomplishment and should help build their self-esteem!


November 3, 2008
What do you do if your child wants to read a book you disapprove of?

I think it depends on the age and temperament of the teen or tween. I know of a number of options.

Take the Book Away
First, there may be occasions when it’s appropriate to tell a child a book isn’t a good one for them to read and to take it away. The wife of a church leader who had been an avid reader since her childhood told about bringing home a book from the library that she had chosen without being aware of what it was about. When her mother saw it wasn’t an appropriate book, she simply told her daughter it wasn’t one for her to read at her age and took it back to the library.

Similarly, when she was quite young, Corrie Ten Boom, author of The Hiding Place, asked her father what “sex sin” meant, something she’d read in a book. Her father used the analogy of a suitcase that was too heavy for Corrie to carry and told her that for now the explanation was too heavy for her to carry. Her father’s response could also be used for explaining why a book is not appropriate to someone who’s quite young.

Explain Why You Disapprove

For teens, it may be better to explain your reasons rather than simply forbidding something. I’ve never forgotten the story a woman told in church at least 20 years ago, a story not related to reading, but applicable. Her son and his friends wanted to paint their faces to show support for their team at a football game. She first simply told him no. He argued and resisted. The disagreement escalated. Finally, in tears, she explained her reasons, using scriptures. He accepted her explanation and agreed not to paint his face.


Require Additional Reading
More recently, I read an essay by a mother about how she handled her daughter’s poor reading choices. The mother, herself an author of young adult books, saw her daughter's behavior and even appearance change as she began exclusively reading Anne Rice books, books about vampires. The mother told her daughter that she could still read the Anne Rice books but that she also had to read books the mother and librarian chose. As she began reading books by other authors, the daughter began to look and behave like herself again.

A friend who taught high school English responded in a similar way to a girl who wanted to do a book report on a popular romance novel. As I recall, she had the girl instead write a book report on Mr. And Mrs. Bojo Jones, a realistic look at a teenage couple who marry because the girl becomes pregnant. The girl acknowledged in her report the unrealistic way romance novels portray love and sexuality.

Discuss the Book with Your Teen
A dear friend took another approach: as a grandmother, she has no say in what her granddaughter reads but didn’t approve of her reading the latest book in the Twilight series at the age of 12. My friend explained that she would buy the book as soon as it came out and read it first; she’d then give it to her granddaughter to read; after the granddaughter read it, they’d talk about it.

Because each child is different and because the child’s age and the circumstances determine what’s appropriate to say and do, there’s no one response that works for every situation. I think it’s valuable to know what others have done in similar circumstances.

Tell Us What's Worked for You
What has worked for you when your teen or tween wants to read a book you don’t approve of? (Responses may be edited for length or content.)

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Erica

Jul-29 4:48pm

I only let my 11 yr old read the first two twilight books, I explained to her why I didn't want her to read the next ones (or see the movies) because she had read the first two she wanted to know what happened, so I was able to summarize for her what happened, which took part of the 'wanting to know what's next' away.

justnatalie

Dec-3 11:39pm

luckily i haven't had this problem...YET! I really encourage to read whatever they have a genuine interest in - as long as it's age appropriate.




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